… and 6 things you can do to get the fire back

Is Your Lady Bored In The Bedroom?

Are you bored with your sex life?

Well, if you care to admit that you might be in a relationship in which the fire has started to dwindle a bit, you are not alone.

Bedroom Boredom Happens To Most Everyone

It happens to everyone, and in every relationship.

In fact, a good way to look at your sex life is comparing it to a campfire.  Once the fire gets going, it’s just a matter of time before you see the flames climb high into the night’s sky.

The Flames Burn Low

But then, as with every roaring fire, the flames burn down a bit, and if there aren’t any more logs thrown into the fire, all that will be left is just a hot bed of red coals! The trick is to keep putting fuel on those red coals before the fire goes out completely.

How Do You Feed The Fire?

So, how do you feed that fire? After all, you really do wish you could get that “old spark” back and have the kind of great sex you used to, right?

Excitement Wears Off

 Sexual boredom can occur in any relationship after the first initial excitement of being together wears off. 

After all, you and your lover may come home from a long day at work, looking pretty tired, and the last thing on your mind might be jumping on the kitchen table to get it on, right?

She may have forgotten to shave for the last two weeks and she doesn’t look as sexy as she once did – we have all been there. And of course, you’re not helping matters either by walking around, scratching you backside with your old boxers on.

Meanwhile, those hot coals in the fire pit are nearly gone.

What To Do?

So what do you do? Do you throw the giant log into the fire, hoping that it catches on fire again?

Most likely, what the only thing the log will do is put the fire out of its misery – forever.

Why is that? Because the bigger the log, the bigger the expectations. And when our expectations are dashed, we tend to give up or get angry and walk away.

Get Your Love Life Back On Track

 Instead, take simple and small steps to get your love back on track.

Your sex life reflects your life in general. If you are stressed, ill, or bored with your life, usually those same feelings transfer over to your sex life too. Your sex life is simply a mirror to what you are experiencing at the moment.

What’s The Real Answer?

Here Are 6 Solutions

 So what’s the answer to sexual boredom? To bring the fire back into the bedroom, you have to bring excitement to your life outside the bedroom first!

 Here are a few tips:

1. Clean out the clutter – your room, your car, and your life. Get rid of all the things that weigh you down, spiritually, emotionally or visually. This is like removing all the useless ash from your fire pit. The more ash you get rid of, the more room you will have to be you.

2. Start exercising – This gets the juices flowing in every part of your body including your privates. If you’re not the “gym” type, take walks after dinner or go for a bike ride. Just get off your ass and start moving!

3. Feed your creativity – Go to a theatrical play, have a date night, an art show, or a music concert. The passion that comes from the art you experience can transcend to your mind, attitude, and ultimately your sex life!

4. Communicate – Many times, you will find that your love life directly correlates with the type of communication you and your partner are experiencing. Doing the above mentioned things will help with communication. It’s easier to talk about art, music, or your health to help get you back on track. You will find that those little sparks will also help you talk about the bills being due, when you need to pick up the kids, or what chores need to be done.

5. Bring her small gifts – The act of generosity can unlock a lot of past hang-ups, including resentments, frustrations, and annoyances that may exist between the two of you. Start small with gifts such as flowers, scarves, and coupons for getting her nails done, or a massage. All these things make her feel special and provide you the feeling that you are doing a good job taking care of her!

6. Increase Your Confidence – Women love a man with confidence. Perhaps you need an extra nudge to get the fire going. Perhaps, you want show her that you’re as sexual as ever!

 Sexual excitement always begins before entering the bedroom. If you remember to slowly feed your fire, soon those small gestures will ignite into a small but powerful fire with tremendous potential. In no time at all, you will be ready to put that big log back in the fire bit and see the flames, once again, fill the night sky.

Good Luck Out There,

Victor Mayfield

p.s.  There’s a product called Provacyl (fairly expensive) that I take – I’ve found that it not only helps with a general sense of well being – energy, good mood, etc. – it also helps a lot with keeping my libido strong (but not too strong).

Check out the details page Here and see if it is something that you feel might help you out as well.

For recent updates on Recalls see my latest post about it on my other site here: http://reviewersfacts.com/the-latest-male-enhancement-product-news/

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I always say to “be careful out there” when giving advice to guys who are looking for a natural male enhancement supplement.

Here are a couple of recent cases and news stories to keep in mind if you are buying your (cheap) products from an unreliable source.  At least these first two guys were actually delivering a product, unlike what The Rexbull scammers have been pulling.

Dangerous Male Enhancement Products

A man and his son were convicted recently for selling what they branded as Xzen 1200.

Father and sons from Rowland Heights sentenced for selling homemade ‘male enhancement’ … – San Gabriel Valley Tribune A father and two sons from Rowland Heights were sentenced this week for illegally importing an erectile dysfunction medication, manufacturing it in …

Read more …

And More Scary News

Volcano Company Recalls Two Male Sexual Enhancement Products

The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) recently reported that the Volcano Company has issued a voluntary recall of two of its sexual enhancement products. These products are Volcano Male Enhancement Liquid and Volcano Male …

Read more …

Nationwide Recall of Male Enhancement Liquid … – US Food Safety

http://blog.usfoodsafety.com

Mon, 22 Jul 2013 18:42:34 GMT

Volcano Company is notifying its distributors and customers by telephone and email and is arranging for return/replacement etc. of all recalled products. Consumers/distributors/retailers that have Volcano Male Enhancement …

Read more …

And one about a cleverly named product called Night Bullet.  Nice one…

Male Enhancement Supplement Nationwide Recall | US Food Safety

Night Bullet is marketed as a supplement for male enhancement. The recalled products are in capsule form, packaged in one (1) count blister packs. The lot and expiration date can be found on the back of the package.

Read more …

Some of you have probably come across VitaliKor.

Dietary Supplement for Sexual Enhancement Recall: VitaliKOR …

On 2013-11-14, the FDA announced that Vitality Research Labs is conducting a recall on Dietary Supplement for Sexual Enhancement due to a possible lack of fda approval. The recalled products were sold under the brand name(s) VitaliKOR …

Read more …

Conclusion

Just a little refresher course on why it pays to always be careful out there when buying any kind of supplement whether it is to enhance your libido or not.

My advice…  always do business with a company that has been around a long enough time that they have a product  that has lots of user testimonials, that they have an actual (legitimate) website where they sell the product.  (not just a return address on the flyer they sent you in the mail)  You know what I mean.

Be careful out there,

Victor Mayfield

One of the best ways to find out what the best product for any situation is to look at the Top Sellers List on Amazon.com.

Where To Buy The Best Natural Male Enhancement Products

It stands to reason that the products with the best (and most) reviews have the most happy customers and it is likely that the product will suit your needs.

So with that in mind, below is the link that will take you to the page where you can do your research and find the product that is right for you.

Top Selling Natural Male Enhancement Products On Amazon

Here’s A Link To The Top Rated Products (on Amazon) Based On Reviews

Good Luck Out There,

Victor Mayfield

Recently there were three male enhancement products pulled from the market by the FDA. These products were being sold as “all natural”, but when tested it was found that they contained a fair amount of “chemicals”.

Not only did they contain a chemical substance, but that substance was one regulated by the FDA. The pills that were pulled contained Sildenafil. That’s the stuff in Viagra.

Actually some of the stuff in the pills was… Sulfohydroxyhomosildenafil and Aminotadalafil and these are an analogues of sildenafil …  According to the articles below.

FDA to Consumers: Avoid “Libido Sexual Enhancer,” “Rock-It Man …

http://dietnewstips.com3/23/13

FDA to Consumers: Avoid “Libido Sexual Enhancer,” “Rock-It Man“. This entry was posted by William King on March 23, 2013 at 3:03 am. FDA to Consumers: Avoid “Libido Sexual Enhancer,” “Rock-It Man … which is structurally similar to …

Male Enhancement Supplement “Night Bullet” is Recalled – Natural Products INSIDER

http://news.google.com

Examiner.comMale Enhancement Supplement “Night Bullet” is RecalledNatural Products INSIDERWASHINGTON—Green Planet, Inc. is voluntarily recalling a dietary supplement that is marketed as a product for “male enhancement”. FDA said its testing found the …

Male Enhancement Pills Recalled for Working a Bit Too Well …

http://www.walletpop.ca1/29/13

Super power male enhancement pills recall viagra In one of the more counterintuitive product recalls we’ve seen, a dietary supplement that promises to enhance male sexual performance is being recalled for containing a …

Male Enhancement Supplement Nationwide Recall | US Food Safety

http://blog.usfoodsafety.com3/13/13

The male enhancement supplement Night Bullet was tested and found to contain trace amounts of Sulfohydroxyhomosildenafil and Aminotadalafil. Sulfohydroxyhomosildenafil and Aminotadalafil are an analogues of sildenafil …

Male enhancement products are dangerous, but use 4 tips to be safe

http://www.emaxhealth.com3/21/13

In addition to “Rock-It Man”, testing confirmed similar findings in “Libido Sexual Enhancer” and “Stiff Days”. The FDA advises anyone who has purchased any of these products to just toss them.  

Be Careful Out There

Check out the latest male enhancement products pulled from the market.  December 2013

I have always encouraged my readers to do their own “due diligence” when buying any sort of male enhancement product.  That’s why I only promote certain ones like VigRX Plus and a couple of others that have proven themselves over time with many happy customers.

In a couple of the articles I linked to above people are having fun with the idea of the recall, but it goes without saying that you can’t always trust the package or promotional labeling when dealing with an unproven product.